Sunday, October 4, 2009


So I havent wrote in a while and well some things have happened.....

Well lets see two and a half weeks after the wedding was called off I was broke up with via text message. Yeah and again this was while I was at work, what is up with that? I mean he already stuck a knife in my heart so I guess he decided to kick it on through and kill my heart. I dont even know how to feel after that one. But then after that blow I got advice that I didnt even ask for and told things that was further than the truth. One person in particular told me that i wasnt allowing God's will to be done in my life. Ok, first of all I know that this break up was God's will and I do allow God's will to be done in my life. So before someone tells me that you need to take a hard look at their life and then that same person told me that next time "don't give your heart away so quickly"...My response is MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. Who is this person to tell me when to fall in love and so on? I was so hurt that day and then she preceeded to tell me this, yeah lets put more hurt on Courtney and make her feel even more stupid and hurt than what I already felt.

I still feel humilated cause everytime I turn around I have to tell everyone that ask what happened. I mean how much fun is it that I have to stand there and look at everyone and tell them that this guy that I love has rejected me. Yeah it su.cks and I have to relive it everytime. And it is like it happens all over again but at the same though I am lucky that I have people to help me through all of this.

I am also thankful that I have God in my life cause he is the best thing in my life other than family and friends. People have honestly shocked me with their support and the people that you think would be there for you and offering love, support and prayers well they haven't. And you know what that hurts too. Anymore I dont even try to figure people out cause what is the point?

Last night I finally broke and what was the breaking point last night? A wedding cake (yeah I know stupid) and after that I preceeded to cry for about an hour straight last night and even right now I am crying cause he hurt me so bad. You know I have been hurt alot but this just puts the frosting on the cake. I mean how do you tell someone that you love them and want to spend the rest of your life with them and then call you up at work and tell you I dont want to marry you anymore? Explain that one. I also think that he was cheating on me, well if he was I hope that she is better than me, cause I treated that bastard good. I am not even going to write what I am thinking right now cause it isn't very lady like.

I am sorry if this blog doesnt make much sense....


  1. Next time someone is rude enough to ask what happened, you should just look at them & explain that you realized you were way better than that douchebag.

    That's my opinion at least. :)

    I've said it before & I'll say it don't need to deal with anyone in your life who thinks so little of your feelings & is so immature to announce major life decisions over a text message. He's lame. Give me his email, I'll tell him how lame he is. :)